He is definitely done with replay and all of that. To me, that is the crux of the crisis. Just because he isn't calling me up, professing undying love to me and wanting me back does not mean he is still deeply imbedded in the crisis. He's awake enough to know what he's done. He's very ashamed. He told me he has kicked his own @ss over it. For him to admit all that he has and acknowledge what he put me through shows that he is out of this enough to understand what he did. He will be a long time trying to understand what caused him to change.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
