Having a hard time

[mkultra]

Hi I am checking in since I cannot sleep either. My house is a wreck in three places and I try to keep everything else tidy. Luckily, my mom and her boyfriend came over this weekend to do some repairs. There would be no way for me to do everything! It does get easier though. People need other people sometimes. My H is now interested in helping out but for months, nada, so there may be a time when yours will realize that his kids' home needs some handman work. I am so sorry about your kids. I heard that kids will somehow retaliate against the primary parent during a separation. My TH friend mentioned this to me. It is like a ploy to get you to talk to the other parent, to bring you together and bond over their discipline. I am not sure if I believe that but my kids are out of control way more now than they used to be in a two parent household. But that makes sense. I feel bad, but I am yelling at them a lot more because I feel so rushed! It is hard but the theme is that it will get better and Mommy needs to take better care of Mommy before she can give herself away too much.