Thanks jeff, I want ppl to be harsh and steer me in the right direction. This forum is really helping me realize some things I would have other wise not thought about, which is what i wanted. I am going to talk to W and see where that gets me. She will come home any time I ask her 2, she loves me beyond words, I feel like a fool for not realizing women like that are hard to find now days. I am gona cool things down with OW for a while and focus on what I want and what it would take 4 me to be happy in my M if there is a way. Then I will talk to W and make a final decision on D....... Does this sound like the right thing to do?
