If he's still depressed, then doesn't that mean the crisis isn't over yet?
I agree with what you have said about the end of the crisis not equating with reconciliation. You mentioned it in a previous post and it has had a lasting impression on me. We all encourage each other to have patience, but that implies that our H's will return in the end. Sometimes I think we should be encouraging each other to accept what our H's are saying to us and just move forward with our lives. Doesn't mean we can't still hope for a happy ending.
