Need Advice!

[elocin777]

That is what I want to know? What can I do differently? I try and talk with him, he sleeps in my bed since the day H left, I take him to counseling, he is in that program in school but things seem to be getting worse for him. I do not talk about H in bad way around them, one conversation was over heard when I thought S10 was sleeping but I talked my way out of that saying I misunderstood something with H. S13 just opens up and tells me his feelings and what he needs from me--S10 barely opens up to counselor. That FISH program at school I asked what they do and he says he is not allowed to tell me. Which I am not thrilled about, there should be no secrets between child and parent. The only thing I can think of is privacy issues with the other families. I just feel so helpless--I want to make things better for him but I don't know how. I am hoping this new place will be better because alot of his friends live in the development but I am so concerned because he is more like H's family and depression runs in his family. I will not be sneaking out to H's at night anymore when kids are home because that is totally selfish and irresponsible that is a promise to myself. So I know right now my attention is needed to be on my kids I just need to know how to approach it with S10.