Had to start new thread because I think everyone gave up on me I am really worried about S10 and just want so advice of anyone with kids around same age.
Ok I just went off on H and I know I am not suppose to but I am just so mad at him for what he is doing to our children. I got a note today from the school guidance counselor that they want me to give S10's teacher permission to talk to our counselor about Ben. So obviously things are getting worse not better, but you think they would contact me. Anyway I told him I hope he was happy and that this is all worth it despites his children's happiness. When I told him about the note it was as if it was no bid deal. It sent me over the edge! I don't get it! His only words were I am sorry for what you and the kids feel. Bull**** if he was sorry he would have tried to keep his family together. That is our responsibilty as parents--I didn't give up, he did. Why would they want to talk to our counselor?
Even though I am mad and that is why I said those things-he is going to say that I am trying to put a guilt trip on him. I feel so helpless! What can I do for S10? He does not open up as easily as S13. I try and talk to him but he doesn't say anything.

Me 36
H 35
S 13 & 10
M 15 yrs- 2gether 17yr
Bombs 7/06, 6/07
ILYBNILWY 7/07
OW 7/07
Left 9/07