Sounds to me like you're getting to the place I got to and that was when I started living my life without H and I quit focusing on the sitch so much. That's when my life got better and I became happier. I think everyone here eventually has to get to that point, because the more you think about it, the more it rules you.
However, the more you begin to live your life "as-if" - and you are truly feeling "as-if", the happier you become and sometimes, all of a sudden, they begin to realize what they may be losing. If they don't, then they are not worth the time spent to keep them. This may sound harsh, but we all have to remember, WE'RE WORTH SOMETHING TOO! :-)
Hey Stumped,
I am there, I have pushed galing to the limit..... last Saturday the only thing that made the differance from me have had a good time and having a great time was the fact that I am still married....It really could have been a great time (in a hot tub) But the very last possible minute reality kicked in.... and I went home to my "roomate".....ButI do have a number.....
H
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
