Its really sad they wont man up..yes divorce is the path of least work given where he is right now...guilt yes..dont forget pride......if he was to try and fix this , it would require him to be humble, to walk in humilty..I think it is a character issue .....sorry I am just numb at all the destruction I have lived and read about here, I had no idea, this is the way people treat who they promied to love and cherish and let no man put asunder.....whatever, cheap words , nor repentance and no one has any fear of God and his word anymore