What, are you sitting back, waiting for the throng of lwb fans to show up????
Tell us how you're doing. How you feel strong and independent in the face of adversity. How this whole struggle has empowered you to become a better person.
Mark, umm...I would have to say that YOU are in no place to judge how *I* open a new thread. Because...um....yeah....where is your new thread?????
I am feeling strong and independent, by the way. I am a wonderful mother, I have a great job, great friends and family that care. I have become a better person through this, I really have. If my H chooses to give me up, then so be it. I can't stop it.
LO, I agree, he is an idiot (I fixed my typo by the way).
He asked me to go shopping with him today and while we were there I was thinking "Do I really enjoy time with him, with the person he is now?". I don't think I do....
One minute, I think I'll be ok, the next minute, I panic.
I need to do some changing. I need to detach from H. But if I am supposed to be loving and 'open arms' with him, how can I detach? I am so confused. I think he is completely ready for a divorce. Whether he actually wants it or not doesn't matter anymore, he is focused. I know its against DB to 'assist' them with the D, but I think I am going to have to speed this up. I can't live with him anymore, not when he doesn't want me. And he won't move out until we have situated the house. I think I need space. But I know I'll miss him.
One minute, I think I'll be ok, the next minute, I panic.
We all know that feeling all too well, but you are going to make it and you will do great.
And, remember you get to have fun with me this weekend. You will see that we don't need those stinkin' men. And if you are really lucky, I'll disclose more of my story....and it's good. I've got you waiting for the weekend now don't I?
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
You didn't start with a song so I will give you a joke about men who cheat.
GUTS OR BALLS?
There is a medical distinction. We've all heard about people having guts or balls, but do you really know the difference between them?
In an effort to keep you informed, the definitions are listed below:
GUTS - Is arriving home late after a night out with the guys, being met by your wife with a broom, and having the guts to ask: "Are you still cleaning, or are you flying somewhere?"
BALLS - Is coming home late after a night out with the guys, smelling of perfume and beer, lipstick on your collar, slapping your wife on the butt and having the balls to say: "You're next fatty."
I hope this clears up any confusion on the definitions.
Medically speaking, there is no difference in the outcome, since both ultimately result in death.
I only panic alone and with you guys. I am just so confused on what to do with H, saffie and sara (both with successes) say to be open with him, but DB says detach. I am just going to attempt friendship and leave it at that. Because of this small glimmer of hope the last few weeks (H talking of R), I find myself being so much more affected by H's moods, wanting to be around him, etc. Detach from that, I suppose.
Hope, darnit. You are right, we will have so much fun. I am looking forward to it. Thursday too. Thanks for reminding me. And yes, details, my friend, you owe me....
Thanks for reminding me. And yes, details, my friend, you owe me....