Thanks for stopping by. I hope things are going great with you and TJ.
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I suspect Shady, that you are too TOO important to STBX. He would rather risk a diminished view of himself in front of OW than with you
I have thought of this. He was always so worried about appearances I have thought that maybe if he didn't think he could live up to what he felt was his place in my life that could have contributed to him leaving. But I am guessing and it might be WAY off base.
I also think he liked the mystery of the ow. He didn't introduce her to his BIL until recently and the kids too. Then last weekend our friend met her. He (our friend) was very impressed by her. (Sure, I get the great ow....) but his dad has no desire to meet her, I think his mom would just to make sure she doesn't lose her son.
I hope that now that she is out the allure of her starts to wear off. Some ow do, some ow don't. Again, who knows.
H said he doesn't want to me M again, ever. Well now he and ow have matching Tiffany Atlas rings. Blech.
