You are Bloody Amazing (BA). BTW in Aussie talk 'Bloody' is just slang not a swear word so please dont be offended!
What I mean to say is you are an incredibly amazingly strong woman. What an example of how to be centered and not to be swayed by H's ever changing moods. Please tell me that you are going to do something extra special just for you, to treat yourself after all your hard work?
I think I'm still a really good person in a really crappy sitch...but everyone here is in the same boat. I say we put all the MLCers in one big boat and the rest of us get in another big boat and the MLCers can commiserate and we can all have a big party !!!!!!
Hey everyone! Thanks for all your words of encouragement!
Bad day today... H went off on me this morning because I asked him if he'd like to meet for lunch....now I guess I'm pressuring him...???? I told him all he had to do was say No...not today....but ...I mean and his MLC brain can't comprehend how to be nice today.
In the meantime we are trying to list our townhouse up for sale (we bought it a year and a half ago as a fix and flip...ended up not selling so we rented it...but the tenant skipped in December and we're looking for a new one or putting it on the market....so there were a few quick phone calls back and forth about that... H is distant and cold again. Last time he called...at the end of the conversation I said I love you and he said...we'll talk. So I'm prepared for the worst...whatever happens happens....I want off this ride!!!!!!
I wish we could really have a party and all get together...you've all become friends and I would love to put faces with the names! (or in Lisa's case...falsies)!
I took the day off...since H was such a jerk, I needed some time. Worked on tax stuff...everything is almost done. Worked the phones on the townhouse and stayed calm.
Don't know what tonight will bring, but I'll keep you updated. Hope to get online later to catch up on everyone's threads!
Love you all! BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally
Muted excitement sounds like a good plan....if things turn upwards again, remind me of that one! I'll keep it in my thoughts because I think outward excitement may have been part of what scared him back into the dark hole of MLC.....
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally
I wish we could really have a party and all get together...you've all become friends and I would love to put faces with the names! (or in Lisa's case...falsies)!
I've been planning a trip with the lottery money I haven't won yet to visit as many of the folks that visit my thread (and other that I visit, too) as I can. But I think I've changed the plan. I think I will get tickets for all of them to meet somewhere, we we can all meet! And buy out a hotel, or something. And lots of food! And drink! And socks, and everything! And no rules! (Hmmm, maybe Australia? How about that?)
When is the party?...I wanna come!
