I agree with BND. I have very little to go on from TJ as of now, but why would he leap at the chance to give our marriage another look at, if he was happy? Truly, they know they are not happy. The only real card OW holds is the mystery and sneaky aspect of the relationship. And strangely enough, that is the first thing they want to shed, to go public. Remember your husband is not looking to have another marriage. The one he has was great.
I suspect Shady, that you are too TOO important to STBX. He would rather risk a diminished view of himself in front of OW than with you. She was just the first to ask for the job when H had horrible self esteem, and well not the best candidate. She is interchangeable. Truly.
She will lose. She wants to have everything you had in a marriage, and that is exactly what H is running away from. You will see.
Time.
Time.
and more time.
Love you!
Hoolly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
