Mark, umm...I would have to say that YOU are in no place to judge how *I* open a new thread. Because...um....yeah....where is your new thread?????
I am feeling strong and independent, by the way. I am a wonderful mother, I have a great job, great friends and family that care. I have become a better person through this, I really have. If my H chooses to give me up, then so be it. I can't stop it.