BND,

That does make sense. And I think I am guilty of thinking STBX's life is a bed of roses. I try to think about it rationally, but I don't have any idea what goes on there or anything about his life. I probably romanticize (sp??) it a lot.

Honestly it doesn't seem that he ever thinks of me. At least he has called the kids every day for a week. That's a new record.

Snowmen turned out great. Gotta go help with homework, I'll check back in a little while.

Love,
Shades