Here's an example though. It's like someone volunteered to do your laundry but then everything comes out pink. Or says they'll help you paint your walls and paints them the wrong color. Or says they'll mow your lawn and cuts down all your flowers as well.
Is that really helping? and do you want them to help you again??
My H is like that person. ANd when I don't like how he did something "to help" my expectations are too high.
When life gives you lemons, trade them for limes and break out the tequila!!-- Soxfan2007
7/1/05 Bomb 7/20/05 H moves out 2.5 years of Rollercoaster 10/30/07 H moves back home