Sox,
If your H isn't willing to do the reasonable things you ask to make your life easier, I think it's going to be hard for this M to work. I think that's an essential question. Is your H willing to do what you ask to make your life easier? Is he trying to meet your needs and desires?

If he is then the problem is communication and expectations. If he's not, then I wonder what motive he has for being in the M?

M is practice for learning to balance striving to satisfy our desires and to be selfless and kind.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching