Life Changing...not life ending.....

[Nature Girl]

w8, I don't know if I can understand that either. My guess is that they can't face the kids because of the guilt they feel.

If it gets to the point where my H leaves the house, it will be interesting to see how he treats the kids. Right now my kids know nothing and he is a very attentive father (probably more than pre-bomb), not just extra treats and gifts. I don't know how that will change if he has to look them in the eyes and tell them he is leaving.

(((hugs))) and I hope your D feels better soon!