Having a hard time

[cat03]

hugs honey))))))))))) I know somedays the reality of your sitch comes down like a ton of bricks on you, when you've been holding on and then one day you just can't take it and break down, it's normal honey, don't despair--remember, women are like waves, we crash and hit rock bottom and must let out pent up emotions... it helps up vent.

I have a s9, and when his been told more than 3x to do something and is specially unruly I take away a privilege (no video games for 2 days/tv, etc, something like that) it works better than a good scolding (and yes, if my H were around he's only have to use his stern voice and my s9 would shape up).

My house is also in great need of a handyman, and H wouldnt' care less. Choose the task that really needs done and ask your H, only ONE though (I always joked that if I asked more than 2 tasks from my H he'd short circuit). I just put away my xmas tree (I ask H to help on the spot and he did)

If H used it against you that was just immature, if I get too anxious I will go to the dr and get some prozac or something, I don't care what anyone says, if it will make me feel better and help me cope then the meds are very welcome, dont' think twice HSS

H told me he went to a concert that I would've loved to see

Bonehead! that's all I have to say, jeez. Do more of the stuff you wanted to do in the past that your H didn't want to do, have fun.

but it seems something else always comes along

Even if you were not S, something else would've come along anyways hon, it's just harder now that you are getting used to this sitch.

You will do just fine))))))))))) hang in there, send the kids to bed, rent a chick flick and relax for a bit, tomorrow is another day, choose to be happy regardless.