Originally Posted By: Light Seeker
Hi Burgbud - we just recently talked about taking turns intiating sex (my idea) because I have bearing that burden for far too long. He was afraid too because he didn't like feeling rejected.



there's kinda a straighforward fix for that, LS:
dont reject him

Then you'll get more of what you want (him initiating more), and he'll get more of what he wants, and hopefully, things could improve more.


Last edited by Dom R; 01/29/08 09:08 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle