I apologize to all for being scarce the last few days. Not much has changed with my sitch and I'm frankly tired of dealing with it.
Sounds to me like you're getting to the place I got to and that was when I started living my life without H and I quit focusing on the sitch so much. That's when my life got better and I became happier. I think everyone here eventually has to get to that point, because the more you think about it, the more it rules you.
However, the more you begin to live your life "as-if" - and you are truly feeling "as-if", the happier you become and sometimes, all of a sudden, they begin to realize what they may be losing. If they don't, then they are not worth the time spent to keep them. This may sound harsh, but we all have to remember, WE'RE WORTH SOMETHING TOO! :-)
Last edited by stumped1245; 01/29/0809:00 PM.
"GET BUSY LIVING OR GET BUSY DYING...."
And... for your viewing pleasure.... http://www.laughyourway.com/video/ Best video I've seen that helps define the difference between Men's & Women's thoughts.
