Better late than never?

[jon2911]

Well, tonight may be the night. I'm going to use a word picture to tell her how I feel. From an awesome book called "The Language of Love" by Gary Smalley and John Trent. They start the book with with the story of a walk-away spouse who's heart is turned back by the use of a word picture. I completely lost it reading that on the bus to work this morning.

Anyway, here's my biggest GAL and 180 yet: I'm buying a Harley! Getting rid of the piece of junk truck that my wife always hated. The incredibly strange twist is the Harley belongs to OM's dad, who had an MLC, bought it, never drove it, so I'm getting an incredible deal. How freakin' crazy is that? I've never met OM. W told me about the bike and that I should buy it. Here's texts from Sunday night:

W: My friend's dad has a Harley, he never rode it except every once in a while to keep the engine in good shape. He's selling it cheap.
Me: Would you ride with me on it?
W: Are you kidding? I'd have sex with you on it.
Me: You'd better keep your end of the deal if I buy this bike...
W: Hell yes

Fun little exchanges like this are a huge change from a month or two ago.

Here's another huge 180 for me:

W: I've always fantasized about a sugar daddy giving me plastic surgery as his gift to ensure the deal. Hehe
Me: That can be arranged;) What if sugar daddy got you a Harley instead?
W: Hehe I'm dreaming of fixing my nose at the same time vroom vroom
Me: What's wrong with your nose? I like it, but sugar daddy can definitely pay for that
W: Really? That would be so hot!
W: Are you being serious?
M: Absolutely
W: I don't know what to say, you are blowing me away


This is a 180 for me, because I was always opposed to plastic surgery during our marriage. To me, W is completely perfect and beautiful. What I had to understand is that it's not about impressing me, but about her feeling good and confident about herself (very hard for us men to understand that women would care about anything besides our opinion)

I know that W had dinner with OM last night. What happened? No idea. But she took him off her friend's list on Facebook. (OK, I still think all those sites are stupid, but whatever). Guess I'll find out a lot more tonight. Please be prayin' if that's your thing...