Hey Jet, Just spent some time reading through this whole thread. I just want to say WOW..you are really a testament to true patience. I think you have done such an incredible job of divorce busting, detaching, and continually analyzing and reevaluating things. I am really impressed. No matter what happens with your EW, I think you've done a pretty expert job at divorce busting. I really admire your strength and in my opinion, I would say you are the last one who needs to be worrying too much about being a bad parent. I don't think the EW needs to be throwing any stones that way given her own behavior. I understand though that in this crazy world, we are the ones who have to suspend judgment on THEM...while we generally get picked apart for everything! lol...hang in there