Wow, quite a morning. I don't know WHAT to expect at this point, so I'll keep the expectations at zero.
She called me again, this time at work. I'll spare everyone the details, but the main thing was she said she wrote 4 pages in her journal after I left her place on Sunday. She said her head is in a "weird space". I asked her why, she said it was after I spent 6 hours with her. She said it in a nice, positive way. I told her that if we get back together, it will be a new marriage with the same (but better) people, and she agreed that yes we know each other's shortcomings, as compared to starting up with new people. I said, "so you have some thinking to do". She said "yes, and that's what this has been all about. Giving me space to think."
She is phoning me tonight at 9pm. I can't wait to talk more.
I won't start wagging my tail yet, but this has been a huge step forward today.