Great progress! I like that he is calling you so often. If you think what you are doing is working keep doing it. If its not try something new and monitor the results, and try something else. You will know when the time is right what to do!

I cant tell from your email, but a note of caution is that if you want to have less contact (to create space for your H to miss you and then draw closer) simply don't answer the phone. But watch your tone when you do answer the phone, and keep it all light and happy (even if you make an excuse to get off the phone as quickly as possible). You probably are already doing this. Just wanted to make sure you're not sending signals to him that he is doing something wrong, or you are unhappy with him.

You are obviously on the right track, and your His hopefully starting to realize exactly what he is missing.

You know what I reckon with the time difference we might have been getting married at almost the same time! definitely lets meet up in the posting thread in a couple of months!


Me - 29
H - 32
Married 7 years
Separated 09/07