Some advice. In C h said that he enjoyed having me as a companion, someone who made him feel safe. but he does not want that anymore. He feels nothing towards me and said that coming back to a marraige where he loved his d and not his w is not worth it. He said m is something between 2 people who love each other and does not involve children. C said he needs to see someone for individual c and suggested he see her one week and then as a couple the following. Is this a good idea? she keeps on telling him that he cannot make any decisions for a while and that he should focus on himself and do things for himself and d not for r.
What should i do? H also cannot face anything from the past right now, wont even help me move cos he does not want to help unpack boxes. He says he feels a huge amount of guilt. C asked if he is depressed and he said no other things make him feel good! Why wont he just admit the ow? does this sound like a MLC to anyone?
