Thanks guys for the support. It is hard sometimes to know what to do. He has called 2 or 3 times from work today just for random questions. We had "regular" conversations about "regular" things, nothing about or R or M. It was actually nice. And he has been sleeping in our bed, and saying ILY on occasion again. So I will keep in mind the positives when I am feeling negative.
But yes, I will have to take a stand if he is out late tonight. He doesn't have a house key, neither of us do since we moved here 2 yrs ago. We use the garage door opener to open the garage and leave the door into the house from there unlocked. The front door is always locked and we don't have the key. So if he is out late I can lock the door between the garage and the kitchen, that way if he opens the garage door he still can't get in. But I am going to assume that won't happen......
