don't you think a rational person would take more time than that before moving this person in with her kids.
Shades.....
OW are not rational people.
They are people who have no moral compass, no integrity, no ethics.
It is all about them and their happiness.
They do not care about "the" wife or the kids.
They care about themselves and want someone to take care of them.
For crying outloud, what "normal" and "rational" Woman would want a Man who had abandoned his 8 children and wife and move 3000 miles away.
Now that MLCBS is pretty much over, I have come to learn alot about OW and how they work.
Shades, call me a hopeless romantic, but I do not believe that your Husband doesn't think about you or compare you to OW in a positive way, in his mind.
I get to hear bits and pieces of Beloved's life in the great outdoors, and it wasn't as pretty as he made it out to be.
He thought of home alot, and me and the kids.
At times he thought he had done too much damage to ever return, so he tried to make do with the new life he was trying to create.
Does that make sense?
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
