BobbieJo,
I know it is easy to revert back to what he has done in the past and think the worst. I think we have all done it. Try to be positive that he will come home early and that he really wants to work on your M. Your H probably feels a lot of guilt for hurting you and now he feels it for hurting the OW. I keep thinking when I read your posts that maybe he continued to talk to her because she could not judge him for cheating and almost walking away because she was doing the same thing. He probably felt like he almost deserved to be with the OW because he didn't think he deserved you anymore.

What I would do if he does stay out all night or goes out drinking and stays out late, lock the doors, don't answer your phone and make sure he can't climb into bed with you when he does show up. But of course I am a brat!

Keep the faith!

B.


ME 34
H 33
Married 02/11/2006
1st bomb- 06/05/2006
final 01/07/2008