(Lil) ...OTOH YOU'RE the one who wants her to do this.
SM told his W their M is in serious trouble. Her response was that they should get counseling. SHE'S the one who wants to do this. HE wants more sex, not more counseling.
Well put.
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Rescuing is when person B won't do his or her own work and person A rushes in to do person B's work for them, kwim?
That's exactly the situation SM finds himself in. He's doing well by not rescuing.
I don't understand how merely "suggesting counseling" is her work and setting it up is SM's work. It's not.
Ironically, it was the counselor that we saw last year who first pointed out my tendency to rescue my wife.
SM
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
