I hear what you and the good doctor are saying....I am afraid however that my parents may be more right than I am willing to admit. I love my W unconditionally (ok pretty close to it anyway) but her recent actions (last 6 months) are not in line with my values even less that of my family (which does not really matter). I am struggling with all this, now that the initial shock is wearing off. As I said earlier I am in the D7 protection mode right now. I can deal with the rest. I guess I am lovingly detaching at this point.
