The others are right, your family just wants you to be happy and for your hurt to end. They just don't understand what you are going through. My parents know and mom my wants us to work out, but my dad said he would pay for the lawyer so my H gets limited visitation with our S (he thinks my Hs lifestyle is damaging and doesn't want our S to think it is ok). I didn't tell my parents, but they can tell because H hasn't come down as often (my parents bought the house directly behind me-yes, it is soooo Everybody Loves Raymond LOL). My H just told his parents that we were having problems, not what they were, so they don't know he is doing his stuff again.
Everybody means well, but you need to go with what you feel is best for you-"Trust your hunches. They're usually based on facts filed away just below the conscious level." – Dr. Joyce Brothers
Keep on being strong!
B.
ME 34 H 33 Married 02/11/2006 1st bomb- 06/05/2006 final 01/07/2008
