I think that labeling someone as an LD person is probably the worst thing you can do for opening up the door to a better relationship. It defines your wife in such a negative way that it would be very difficult to see any positive behavior in her because you are only looking for the negative.
{Head nodding in agreement}
Cemar, I haven't followed you or been around here enough to know your whole deal but it almost seems to me that you are searching for 'stuff' to justify how things are in your relationship...statistics, an HD vs LD mentality. Maybe I'm wrong, I just get that sense from you that..."My wife is the LD enemy and I'm going to find whatever I can to support my HD view." Like I said, I haven't followed you closely but from what I HAVE read, to me it's as though you are unable to see, understand, and accept things from an LD POV.
Ok..back to my lovely hospital lunch. {Oh yummy...lime jello with pineapple chunks...again }
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