I have always wondered WHEN he started seeing her. He told me it wasn't until 5 months after we were separated. If that is true does it make it better?????
I have my suspicions that he was seeing her before that however. He often said he was "working", out with clients in NYC until 3am. He did have a job that he had to entertain clients but until 3am??? Come on. After he dropped the bomb he told me he was talking to a woman in a bar one night (before the bomb) and she had asked if he was M and he said no, then he felt bad about it (ha!). He felt bad about it because someone could look him up on the company website and read that he was M with kids. Niiiiiice.
But yes, at some point she knew he was married and had children. He could have told her that we were getting D, he could have told her all kinds of things. But she knew there was a W and kids somewhere. When his mom didn't want to meet her, when she wasn't invitied to D9's Communion, she knew. Maybe he told her I was alright with the D, even wanted it, does that make it better??????
Going to go to D9's class and do a food craft today. We're making snowmen out of powered donuts and all kinds of other sugary stuff. They'll love it.
