Its such a blow because you want to believe in them and then you find out they are lying and doing what they want. I honestly believe they know they are wrong and just don't want to turn loose or face what they are doing. My H like yours as you know has been living with OW. He told me Sunday he moved into an old friends house and wasn't living with her anymore. His friend told me he was trying to get his life to gether. but he went to her birthday dinner Sunday.... she Still has a hold just like yours. Mine wants to proceed with the D also but it will take a while because of the partnership and dividing financial. I did figure out how to buy the place I looked at because I thought I am not waiting. He can catch back up with me sometime...Maybe... It still hurts. I was meeting with BIL who is the accountant and it was all I could do not to break down.... I feel so sorry for you because I know the how the hurt and pain feel as others here do.....Please know you are a special lady with at great personality and you are a great mother....
A friend sent this to me yesterday......
When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. Keep your head up you are a special lady.....
