Hey BJ! I can totally understand your concern. IMO, you should trust your H and try to let it go. If what he says happened is true, then there should be NO other reason for them to be alone together again. If it happens again at this point...then I might worry. I am sure it is so hard to trust after what has happened, but you will need that in order for you guys to work things out.
It seems like in your sitch, it might be worth talking to your H about your issues. Would he understand if you told him you want to trust him, but he needs to understand it may be hard for awhile? Not necessarily DBing, but it sounds like you and your H can communicate better than alot of us here. Again, just my opinion.
I don't remember if I have posted to you before, but it is interesting for me to read your thread b/c I live 30 minutes from KC, so I am familiar with most of the places you refer to.
Me: 30 H: 28 Separated: 06/01/07 D bomb: 07/17/07 after me pushing and pushing! #2 bomb: 08/13/07 Once again, I pushed!! #3 bomb: 01/08/08 Previous Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1322680&page=0&fpart=1
