Good luck John. It is hard when family members are advising you to end it. They just don't want to see you hurt. I have tried to only tell a handful of people b/c hopefully we are going to reconcile the marriage, and it is hard to walk into a dinner or party and think everyone is thinking about your messed-up M in the back of their minds.....But my parents had to know b/c I have been so emotional and needed them to keep the kids overnight a few times. So I know how you feel. The family just doesn't want to see you hurting. But do what is right for you, you already know that though... Happy Tuesday
