I've actually suggested it(long time ago now), and she declined. she only does "family" trips. "For our children". so I havent pursued it. i'd really like to do that. but i have pretty much zero expectation she would say yes to it.
my marriage, and yours, ARE different, though. we barely do anything together. whereas you do stuff all the time with your H.
my wife isnt leading me on. Whereas your husband is. your husband is toying with your emotions. Seems to me like he's in "why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free" mode.
I might suggest for you to go on the trip, but do less with him "day to day".
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle