When I was venting on here last year about how I felt that I was doing all the work and cac wasn't stepping up to the plate, EVEN though he was the one who had come here first to complain about our SL, several posters asked me if I wanted to be right or if I wanted to work on the marriage. I wanted to try to fix the marriage.
So, I'm going to duck and ask the same question of SM. (I'm ducking because I feel like I'm being confrontational and that makes me uncomfortable.)
