I may have missed it, but has your H filed any papers yet? If he hasn't you could look at that as a good sign.....maybe that he is not totally convinced of his decision.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
