My W thought the same thing at one point. I had to explain to her that I was the only one that could make me happy. I can't let my happiness depend on others. So, yes I am happy now, but not because you aren't with me. I still care for you and want you in my life to share in this happiness. She seemed to understand... You can't really have this conversation though unless your W brings it up first.
Peace, B
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008