I really am praying that C helps us move in a forward direction.
Well try to not have high expectations for C. If it's anything like my eperience, it's very difficult at first. My C's, and there were three of them, all were very good and pinpointing the problems, but none were really able to provide a viable solution. For example, all were very good at picking up on my W's lack of feelings for me. That was pretty easy. But in the end, all three basically told me there was no chance of changing my W's heart. In addition, my W tends to be the type of person who if someone tells her to do something, she'll do the opposite, or she'll do it and make sure it fails so she can say "I told you it wouldn't work". Like most of us, she likes to be right. So be careful about the C, keep your expectations low, and be prepared to hear things you may not expect to hear.
God Bless,
COG
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...&Number=660444&page=2#Post660444
