All I know is it's a major bitch if your SO is not really into sex and you are. It's one of those fundamental things about a relationship that you can't really work around, it either works or it doesn't. You can always compromise on other things, but with this I just can't see it.
Stu, I, like you I'm sure, have given this topic a tremendous amount of thought and study over the course of the last decade. And to what place has this gotten me? In my case, and I'm not happy to say this, but in essentially complete agreement with your remarks.
