Confusion of a WAW (Thread 6)

[JennyF]

Hey Brit,
I'm sorry things are so upside down.
I find it amazing how reality and the WAS's perception are so incredibly different. There are so many contradictions in your W's behaviours that it is impossible to know what she really wants! I'm sure she has no clue either.
Just_me is right...damned if you do, damned if you don't. It really does go to show you that the problem is in her and not you.
She wants you to do everything for her to fix her life, but without any committment herself. Cake-eating at it's best.
She probably thought that when you moved back in things would feel better...and when they didn't, again instead of looking within herself...she blames you.

So glad she's going to therapy. My heart goes out to her Brit, she's obviously in a pretty bad place.
As far as whether to help her out or not to, though call. I think you should help her by exploring other solutions besides you giving her the money. Kind of a compromise.
Hang in there, you're doing the very best you can!
J~