Not really. Most don't say ILY and don't stand in the doorway giving passionate kisses.
Confused is right. Your W sounds like she's too scared to back out of a deal with OM. Give her some time and space to work through her issues. She needs to get to the bottom of her own problems...you can't fix that. You can just be a rock for your kids and for her if she needs one.
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