She's gone...I'm devastated, but hopeful

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so many people go through their lives missing the opportunities to learn and grow. You've been given one. You're accepting it.

The lessons, from my perspective, aren't always clear. They are subtle and ineffible. But they are real too, and profound.

So what can a 25 yr old tell you? :-) At 25 I would have been much more black and white. If she doesn't want you, move on, or make her talk about it and confront the situation and resolve it. I wouldn't say those things now.

I think I've been slipping into my old ways of thinking. I need to start thinking like she's gone again. Maybe this lesson doesn't stop. GAL!!! I stopped for a while. Need to get back to it.

Good luck MM, embrace it, live it, learn.