If you have a moment try to catch up with recent threads from The Divorce Remedy Book Club.
We are on Part III- but Rachel55 is one of us and you already know her sitch. Donna (Hangin On) is a part of the team. Your sitch is very similar to ours. No one here has any other real "issues" outside of DBing, trying to keep familys together and surviving A.
Like you I have been w/ H 23yrs married 16- (I don't feel as old as that sounds!) We were in the middle of this crisis on our 15th Anniversary so I am relating to you big time.
If you can come over, you will find our group, very helpful. Happy Anniversary either way!
