Aussie Girl stuggling with MLC Husband

[AliSuddenly]

Ah, Essie, I'm sorry to hear that, I got that wrong! I read your thread but didnt go back far enough I guess. Gosh, you went through all that? No wonder you are so wise, you've been on a massive learning curve! Interesting your H is doing badly without you. Working all the hours is a typical male avoidance thing. My BFs been doing the same, well he was, working late every night (again unusual as before, socialising was also HIS no1 priority!). I think the socialising thing was masking my BFs real underlying unhappiness. He even admitted this when we broke up, he said he was very good at "distracting himself". Its sad isnt it. Has your H been in counselling alone at all since this? My BF wont go. He once went 3 years ago, but came back after 6 sessions and said the C said he was "cured". Such a joke! Thing is, you arent able to ask him to go get help now are you, as yuo arent really in touch and not on that level? Its good that all this is making you see things about yourself though? Its a humblimg experience all this, I have learnt.
Thinking of you too !
Ali
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Me: 36
H: 34
T: 9 years
ILYBINILWY: 2 Nov 07
Moved out: 15 Nov 07
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