I can tell you all that TMB deserves the props for the inner strength and courage that he has summoned up this week. We all know that The Choice is ultimately our wayward spouse's to make, and that we don't get to control it.
We DO, however, get to choose what to do about it, and where to draw our own boundaries and lines of personal integrity. I let the decision be his, but TMB no longer was going to allow those who were lying and cheating set the agenda or the timeline for what was going to affect so many kids.
I can tell you all, TMB has nutted-up BIG time and faced down some fears as I've watched him grow before my eyes. I told him yesterday morning that I think it's time for a new username for him, because he has become a man of ACTION. I'm thinking
