My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I have 2 kids from prev. marriage and we have 2 together. I t allways seemed that I was the one doin everything. She did help with kids and house chores, but not as I think a stay at home mom should. I catch alot of slack from my family about how I do everything. She likes to hollar at the kids not abusive but loud. I am a calm and collective person. I have talked to her serveral times about that but to no evail. The OW DOES HAVE HER faults as do I and that would be a relationship that would also need some tlc. It just seems like every 5 min. my mind is changing from wanting a D to wanting to work things out with my W.I know my W loves me and It kills me to see as upset and hurt as she is right now, but I just dont think she could change who she is and how she handles her anger. I was so misserrible the last 3 yrs of my marriage I just couldnt live like that. I did try and talk to her about things, but u know how that goes its all my fault allways. Now she is willing to probably so anything to keep us together, but how long is she gona stay that way if she does make some changes. Not that I am perfect I m not by far. I would also have to make some changes for our marriage to work, but I just cant ever se me being happy with again the W.......
