Thanks for posting on my board. I really appreciate what you said about asking do I want to wait, and waiting as long as I want to. I definitely like to have a PLAN.... so I want to know what the end result is, and find it very hard to wait. You are right I need to take the waiting day by day.
Guess what? I got married on the 10th Dec (7 years ago too).
I'm glad I've survived all the hard dates - anniversary, birthday, Xmas & NYE. It can only get better from here in.
Your NY trip sounds cool! Your H will definitly be wondering about you and how much fun you seem to be having while he sounds like a mess.
How are you coping with the contact? Is it upsetting you emotionally to have so much contact?
You sound like you are doing a fantastic job DB - I have great hopes for your marriage!
